Clarify what you are for, not against. This is true power.
Each of us has a purpose to love and serve each other. This is what gives us our ultimate joy and happiness. The important thing is to discover what vehicle works for you so you know you are in the right place to serve those around you.
Are you a person who loves order? Then perhaps you are a good project manager, or archivist, or accountant. Or are you someone who likes a more unstructured or fluid environment? Then perhaps you are good at things that involve solving multiple problems such, as events management, or cooking in the middle of a busy restaurant environment or as a sales person who enjoys lots of change.
The important thing is to gain clarity around what you love doing because this is the vehicle that allows you to live your life fully as you serve those around you. It allows you to operate from a desire, not to control, but to stand for who you are.
What steps can you take to gain more clarity around your purpose?